Stop Swearing at Work

 Stop Swearing at Work.

There, I said it! I know this will not be a popular opinion. I imagine there will be many of you who will argue against this thought. I understand that some will argue that colorful language is a sign of creativity and intelligence. I know that people will tell me that those who swear seem more honest. I have heard every argument, over many years, multiple different times. But it does not change my opinion.

 Yes, I have read the studies that seem to advocate for a looser mindset when it comes to profane and vulgar language. In fact, I have read many studies because it has been an issue that I have been at odds with for many years. What I found is often we look for arguments that support the belief system that we want to embrace.

 Just because it is written, just because it is studied, just because it is published, does not make it true. The same can be said for my opinion here. but I’m not trying to justify my position based on a study. I’m not advocating for cleaner language in the workforce because I read an article. My position comes from the way I see aggressive language impact others, how it pushes some people away, how it makes some people shrink and seem smaller, how it intimidates and alienates people, and how it changes the course and the rhythm of the conversation. 

Now I understand you may argue that the way these people feel is more about them and you shouldn’t have to change who you are to accommodate their sensitivities. But I have a firm belief that the goal in a workplace is to get the best out of all the people there, and if harsh language changes the outcome and limits the potential of the majority, who tend to be silent, to support the minority, that may be more vocal, the overall impact to your team is negative.

 I am not saying I’ve never swore in or out of the office. But my failings should not justify the behaviors of others. If I have set a bad example in any area of my life, it should not be the reason that others follow suit.

I am not suggesting you shouldn’t swear. I don’t feel I have any right to dictate how you behave in your personal life. However, in a professional setting, the language we use can have a profound and lasting impact on the overall success of our business. It's in this context that I advocate for cleaner language, not to restrict, but to enhance our professional interactions and outcomes.

I can’t fathom a scenario where a professional or a business owner will look back on their life and say, “Man, my business could’ve been much better if I had sworn more.”

Harsh language is often used to shock, rattle, or intimidate. Yes, it can be used in other ways. But if these are the common reasons to use it, making it part of your casual vernacular is a limiting mindset.

I know many will read this article and disagree. I expect I may even get some harsh messages with some colorful language. But you see, none of this bothers me. I am not disturbed, intimidated, or concerned about the language directed at me. My concerns are for the others that may limit their professional success, may be looked upon poorly, or may negatively impact others because they can’t seem to find a better way to express themselves. I think we can do better.