Growth is Knot Always Easy to See

I remember struggling to tie my shoes as a kid. My mom patiently attempted to teach me how to tie my shoes with a standard knot, and I struggled. I’m unsure if it was because I lacked the understanding of the concept or the digital dexterity to perform the task. Maybe it was a little of both. Either way, I was not able to accomplish this seemingly simple task. So, my mom, like many other parents, taught me the bunny ears method. I imagine I must have used that method for a few years. I remember feeling bad about my inability to tie my shoes successfully. I remember feeling embarrassed and frustrated. Very. The thing is, I don’t remember when I transitioned to tying my shoes with the standard knot. It wasn’t an epiphany. There wasn’t a marked moment where I could say, “Eureka, I did it.” Yet, somewhere along the way, I figured it out. Success crept up on me quietly. It’s interesting that I felt bad that I couldn’t tie my shoes but never celebrated the moment I coul...